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Follow-up chaser

You asked, they went quiet. Pally notices who owes you a reply and sends the nudge.

You: who's left me hanging?
Pally: three people: Sam never answered about Saturday, your accountant owes you the K-1, and Dana hasn't replied to Tuesday's proposal.
You: nudge sam and the accountant
Pally: nudged both: a friendly one to Sam about Saturday, a firmer one to your accountant about the K-1. i'll tell you when they reply.

The routine

How it works

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Half of getting things done is remembering who never answered. Pally checks your messages and email, names the people leaving you hanging, and nudges the ones you point at.

  1. Ask who hasn't replied, and add a window or topic if you like.
  2. You get a short list: who, what you're waiting for, and since when.
  3. Tell Pally who to nudge and it sends each one in the right tone, in the original thread.
The full routine

Ask who hasn't replied, and add a window or topic if you like. Pally checks Gmail and iMessage through the Pally Mac app for questions, requests, and proposals still waiting on someone.

You get a short list: who, what you're waiting for, and since when.

Tell Pally who to nudge and it sends each one in the right tone, in the original thread. Ask for drafts first and it shows you before anything goes.

Good for

  • Finding personal plans that never got an answer
  • Chasing a document promised over Gmail
  • Following up on a proposal without searching sent mail
  • Giving different relationships an appropriate tone
  • Choosing which quiet threads should stay quiet

Things to try

You: who hasn't replied to me since monday?
You: find the gmail threads where i'm still owed something
You: draft a friendly nudge for sam and a direct one for my accountant
You: leave dana for now and nudge the others

Before you start

Common questions

How does Pally tell I'm waiting for a reply?

It looks for a question, request, or next step that the other person hasn't answered. Add a person, topic, or date range to narrow it.

Can each follow-up have a different tone?

Yes. Tell Pally how firm to be, or let it match each thread. You can change one without touching the others.

Does asking who's quiet send anything?

No. Asking only lists who owes you a reply. Pally sends a nudge when you tell it to, or shows a draft first if you ask.

Last updated October 11, 2026.

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